SUPPORT IN RELATIONSHIP;

-When should you start supporting each other?

-Who should support in the Relationship?

-In what ways can you support?

-When should you stop supporting??

You don’t need to wait till you are married before you start supporting each other, it is whatever you are practicing now that will be easier for you to continue in your Marriage..

If you are part of the people that say, don’t worry, I’ll support when you are mine, you are so wrong, change that notion.



2. Both parties should support, it should not be too much on one person, if not, it gets choking..

If both parties supports, it gets easier…

If it is the guy that needs support, as the lady, support him, don’t say shebi you are man, you are the head, you don’t need support, it doesn’t work that way all the time, guys are human too.

Guys, support your babe too, don’t say you are the boss on your own, all of us needs a shoulder to rest on some times o, cos some things can be so tiring.

3. In what ways can you support?

-Physical Support: Listening ears and attention are means of supporting yourselves.

-Spiritual Support: Deut.32:30 explained so well with this, she f you support each other in the aspect of prayer enh, you just realize you conquer easily.

-Financial Support: Nobody be boss, even if na gift, give each other, don’t be the collector alone, be the giver too.

-Mental Support: Share things with yourselves;

Confide in each other, be a safe abode for yourselves, let your partner be so happy to share things with you, cos he/she believes you will surely support..

4. When should you stop supporting: If it’s a mutual thing, you keep doing, but if it’s a one sided work, call the attention of your partner to it.

But, I know and believe majority knows the right to do, some just don’t wanna do it.

So, in all areas and aspects, LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS BE OF SUPPORT TO YOUR PARTNER!