You might not like football but let me quickly take you to a football pitch🤗.

Have you ever watched a football match whereby a player is so eager to score, you will clearly see that he needs the goal, that is a very tensed moment.

Atimes the ball will enter the net and still be offside (wrong positioning), some will be side netting (wrong target), the main target is inside the net.

In a football match some players would score, while some won’t no matter the effort, it doesn’t mean that the player won’t score, but it might not just be in that game, or not the time.

It is possible for a player to score in the 1st min while some will score at 90+, which is a very tensed moment in football😁.

Oya, let’s look here, let’s bring it back to A SINGLE LADY/GUY aspiring for a RELATIONSHIP🌚.

Presently, it might look like your mates are getting married, you keep trying your best but it looks as if it’s not working, it is very possible for you to be tensed, angry and tired but you keep trying, it doesn’t mean you won’t get married, NAH, you will but the TIMING might be WRONG for you presently.

Those that are getting it right might even have less preparation than you or more, it may be like they are doing some things you are not doing or probably not just your time.

The impatience might be affecting you. Let’s go back to the pitch again, a footballer might not be making much effort on the pitch and still scored easily😂, it happens, so as a Single guy/lady, what you need might just be PATIENCE.

But as you keep trying, with PATIENCE and FOCUS, you will GET THERE.

The PITCH for the footballer is the PLACE where it would happen, it can’t be his room😂, it’s a PITCH (A PLACE OF PURPOSE), where he’s working, where he’s trying his best, where he’s SERVING to bring joy to people. 

Now as a SINGLE, are you FULFILLING PURPOSE??

The ‘Pitch’ here is also the NEIGHBORHOOD, where God is answering the rest, which also shows that God is around, He’s PRESENT, you just need to RECOGNIZE HIS PRESENCE.

As it is possible for a footballer to score in a minute into the game, and for another to score at 90+ doesn’t mean it’s not a goal, just a time difference.

The WAITING ROOM might be a long process for you or a short one, we all just want a short one, not knowing we have different time🙂.

Don’t give up!

Keep SERVING!!

Keep PREPARING!!!

Tobsea✍️

#G.I.R. GENERATION