You know, there are some relationship that God would say NO to.

And this stage can be very painful to accept, you can even find yourself ‘bargaining’ with God just to make the relationship work, you keep praying over and over, but, God is still telling you NO🥹.

If you are in this stage, a big hug from me to you🫂.


You’ll be like, God, but, this person is so so good, God, I’m not sure I can still find another person like this, God, no one can understand me more than this person, God, I can never love another one like this person, these thoughts and many more will keep going through your head🥹.

Atimes, if care is not taking, your thoughts can overcome His Will for you.


As much as you still want to stay with the person, OBEY God.


You know some people can still go as far as saying, God, you don’t understand how I feel, You really don’t🥹, who told you He doesn’t, He truly does🫂🥹.


Hmmm, OBEDIENCE!

Sometimes, you won’t get the full picture until you obey, atimes, you won’t know why you have to do it until you do it. 

He sees the beginning from the end, He knows it all, just OBEY!!!


But, wait, am I saying OBEDIENCE is easy?

No, I’m not, it is really not easy, to be very sincere, especially when it is looking like you only have the person around you, still, OBEY🤗.

Also, am I saying that fellow is a bad person?

No, I’m not, I’m just saying you should OBEY THE INSTRUCTIONS.

His thoughts towards us are always good, ALWAYS, infact, THE BEST!🤗


After OBEDIENCE, or maybe later, it is possible He shows you why that decision and if He still doesn’t🤷‍♀️.

You know, sometimes, or most times self, you’ll say thank God I obeyed.

You think you’ve missed THE BEST, delete that thought, HIS BEST is not in your past, just wait for HIS BIG SURPRISE to you.😊

You want to obey?


Just let Him know you are ready to obey.

Trust His decision and will for you.

Let Him do His part.

Let Him know how you feel, pour out those pains and hurt to Him.

And do your part too, if you need to, which I think you have to, create space, you can actually tell the person to, so you won’t look like a bad person.

Pray for your heart.

Pray for strength.


You are strengthened!

You are healed!


Also, be patient, wait for His leading, take your time.

God is with you.

He loves you!

I love you too.

🫂🫂❤️❤️🤗