Accountability is the fact or condition of being accountable;
That is being responsible for and to each other.

 What is Courtship?

This is the period you develop a romantic relationship before MARRIAGE.

 So, Accountability in Courtship is being responsible for each other in your Relationship/Courtship.

 There must be an experience of Courtship before Marriage;
Courtship is a period you used in knowing each other, though, it’s not possible to know yourself fully, but you know yourself to some extent through the help of God and through your brain too.
Amen🌚🌚🌚

 Accountability must first be practiced right from Courtship, a foundation that is well laid is what will withstand anything that happens later in your marriage.

If you have a shabby foundation, be expecting an unhealthy marriage..
But, if your foundation is well structured, you enjoy what it brings for you.
Let me tell you something, it is not God that will enjoy it if you did so well, it is you..

And if it is another part too, it is you that will still enjoy it.
When something is not properly made, it’s not good.

A food that wasn’t prepared well won’t be edible to eat.
Also, being accountable is not for a Single Party to fulfil, it is for both parties to to achieve..

Let’s use an illustration, can a single hand carry a load and put on the head??
It’s not possible, it requires 2 hands, to even avoid stress and save time.
There are ways you need to be accountable in Courtship;

Spiritual Ways:
Couples that prays together stays together, the strength you have spiritually is what you will build your marriage on, as you all know marriage is physical and spiritual.
If one partner is lagging behind spiritually, it will affect both of you cos you are ONE.
The Bible that made us know one shall chase a thousand and two shall chase ten thousands knows what both of you can do together.
You know Marriage is an eye-opener, it opened your eyes and that of your partner…

It is not a bad thing to ask your partner maybe he/she has prayed..
You can ask to discuss on Bible verse together, that is what we call ACCOUNTABILITY.

Do not be yoked with an unbeliever..

An unbeliever slows your journey down, an unbeliever reduce you in all ways.
You pray together..
You study together
You meditate on the word of God together.
You know we ladies can be so Emotional, most times it is best for us to marry someone that is more matured than us Spiritually.

In these areas;

Share how you spend your time with each other, there are times you’ll want to do something but it gets tiring cos you don’t have a push😹, but when someone you love is involved and you know he/she is monitoring you, you will do so atimes on time..

Who can relate??

Progress/Growth:

We all have how we want to grow, it might be in business, career or even academics..
Being accountable to your partner in this area makes you know where you are missing it, if you are with a reasonable partner ni ooo😹, cos some partner enh, e get as e be, they can’t help you in any area.

Purpose:

As we all know Purpose is our reason for existence, we carry each other along in our journey, that is why our purpose must be align with each other, so we can have a better understanding.